If you want to engage in mind-numbing sex, you’ll need to arouse your girl first. Now, while some women want their man to slam them up against a wall and rip off their underwear, others would prefer light kisses along their neck while their man slowly inches his hand up her thigh. It’s up to you to figure out what your girl wants.
1- Look sharp
“‘Coz every girl crazy ’bout a sharp-dressed man,” as the ZZ Top song goes. And if you’re dressed like a star, chances are that your woman will want to undress you. Now, you don’t have to put on a three-piece suit every day, but looking well put together and carrying yourself with confidence will arouse her vision, which may serve to arouse the rest of her.
Dress well, maintain your hygiene and stay fit, and you’ll be getting laid well into your golden years. On the flip side, this may encourage her to look as hot as possible as well. And coming home together will take on a whole new meaning.
2- Talk dirty
Talking dirty doesn’t have to involve anything derogatory by any means. All you have to do is walk up to your girl, move her hair to the side, bring your lips close enough to brush up against her ear, and whisper something like, “Spread your legs for me. I want to use my fingers to soak you.”
There are no limits; you just have to know what would excite her. Some women like hearing forceful words, others prefer more romantic lyrics. It’s up to you to discover what her ears have a penchant for.
3- Lick her thighs/back
I’ve said it at least a hundred times; when you seduce a woman by touching parts of her body that usually go unnoticed or ignored, you will arouse her a million times more than if you simply head to her sexualized parts.
That said, spreading her legs open and using your tongue to inch your way up her thighs is a great move… so long as you don’t touch her vagina. That way, she’ll ache, if not beg, you to touch it.
Or, you can opt to lick up her back. Light kisses and the occasional flick of the tongue will drive her crazy, no doubt. Ah, arousal at its best.
4- Use erotic movies
Men are visual, we all know that, but don’t think for a second that women aren’t. The difference comes down to what we want to look at. The next time you’re about to head into the shower, tell your woman you want to show her something and put on an erotic DVD.
5- Call her up
If your mission is to arouse her before you even see her, call her up during the day and fill her in on what you’ve been thinking about, what you dreamt about or what you plan on doing to her that night. This way, she’ll be excited to see you and you’ve managed to begin the foreplay hours in advance.
6- Use blindfolds
If you ever want to drive a woman to depths of sexual excitement still unknown to man, blindfold her. When you steal away her sense of sight, her other senses become heightened. As well, because she can’t see, she may be bolder in her actions and sounds.
Watch as her nipples become harder than ever and her vagina soaks the sheets.
rise to arousal
There are many ways to arouse a woman, but there’s no doubt that arousing her mind will get her body going. Sometimes, something as simple as a deep, slow, wet kiss can make a woman go crazy on you. The thing is, there’s only one way to find out what makes her tick.
Until next time, wake up the beast lurking within your woman.