Why Do Women Sext? “Sex – Texting”

I’ll admit it. I privately make some judgments about a woman who would want to sext with Anthony Weiner. I mean, really, with the waxed chest? But that’s a personal aesthetic bias and my judgment is about as serious as the kind I would make against a woman dating a man wearing a polo and plaid shorts. I couldn’t stand it, but to each their own. That’s kind of the thing about sexuality: People are different.

But a New York Times Op-Ed this week failed to appreciate that. Susan Jacoby, who is typically a brilliant writer and thinker, argued that when it comes to the Weiner scandal not enough attention has been paid to “the role of women in a coarse and creepy Internet culture dedicated to the fulfillment of both male and female desires for virtual carnal knowledge.” (I guess the unabashed slut-shaming directed at these women doesn’t count as attention?) In addition, she wondered “why hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of women apparently derive gratification from exchanging sexual talk and pictures with strangers.”

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It struck me as a classic example of defensive sexuality in which any desires that are not one’s own are seen as a threat that needs to be neutralized. Most people engage in this to a degree, including myself. But, more important, it occurred to me that her piece presented an opportunity for education. Sure, I could hammer out a snarky takedown of her piece, and that might be fun, but why not instead make an earnest attempt at actually answering her question. Why do some women (::puts on robot voice::) “derive gratification from exchanging sexual talk and pictures with strangers”?

Well, here’s the short answer: “For the same reason men do” says Anna Pulley, 30, an Oakland-based writer and a friend of mine. That is perhaps the most important point to be made here — but she adds, obligingly, “It’s risk-free, titillating, provides masturbation fodder and you can control the terms of exchange.”

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You might wonder, though: Why not just look at porn? “A lot of the draw comes from the knowledge, or at least illusion, that someone out there is creating this photo expressly for you,” says Lux Alptraum, CEO of the sex blog Fleshbot. “Sexted photos might be blurry or poorly lit, but there’s something appealing about knowing that they were taken just for you.” Jacoby denigrates this as “just a form of one-on-one pornography,” but Alptraum sees this as “actually a pretty awesome concept.” Why wouldn’t you want sexual content that is, as she puts it, “being created for, and transmitted directly to, you”? That’s why she has occasionally sexted with people she knows, as well as “people who I don’t know but am flirting with,” she says.

Of course, sexy selfies don’t just excite the recipient — they can also be validating for the sender. “Jacoby couched this in really negative terms,” says Alptraum, “but for me, if you’re approaching it with an awareness of what the extent of the relationship is, I don’t really see why there’s any problem with having fun sending and receiving naked photos.”

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“Carol,” 34, from Long Island City, has regularly exchanged emails and texts for the last few months with someone she met on the Internet. They exchange photos — sometimes shots from commercial porn that turn them on — and share “sexual messages while taking turns masturbating,” she says. “There’s no physical interaction, so there’s less of a limitation as far as fantasies can go,” she says. “Because of that awareness, it is easier for me to get off on sexual ideas that may be more ridiculous if they played out physically.” (She gives an example: “having one’s eyes taped shut during sex.”) There’s also little chance of awkwardly running into this person in real life, which is so often guaranteed with someone you meet in the course of your “real” day-to-day life.

Apltraum agrees that a major draw is the freedom of fantasy.”I think online sex is, in many ways, a form of enhanced masturbation,” says Alptraum. “It’s driven more by your fantasies than by the presence of an actual person, there’s an ability to be more focused on your own pleasure than you might be in physical sex, and the distance — and, at times, anonymity — can make it easier to explore things you might feel nervous about discussing during an in-person encounter.”

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It may be fashionable to lament the ways in which technology is taking over our lives, but I found very little sympathy for Jacoby’s assertion that online sex “resembles the substitution of texting for extended, face-to-face time with friends.” Pulley, who has turned to online sex talk with “plenty of people” that she has just met or started dating, argues, “That’s the same line of thinking as those who believe casual sex leads to the depletion of one’s ability to emotionally bond with people,” she says. “One’s sexual sense of self-worth doesn’t hinge on whether fantasies are expressed in one’s head, in a journal or through digital means.” She compares it to all kind of real-world flirting that couples engage in. “Technologically enhanced, consensual foreplay is no more ‘scandalous’ than other non-electronic kinds,” she says. It’s just one of the many ways that we now have to relate to one another.

Besides, sex isn’t any one thing.  As Alptraum puts it, “sex can be fun in a variety of iterations, for a variety of reasons,” she says. “The sex you have because you’re in love is different from the sex you have because you’re horny is different from the sex you have over the Internet.” She adds, “They’re all valid and worthwhile forms of sexual experience.”

Sexting, you decide. Is it right for you?

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We also have a climate controlled smoking deck built specifically so
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Phone: 828-298-1400
Email: asheville@thetreasureclub.com

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Monday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Tuesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
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Thursday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Friday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
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Porn vs. Real Sex: Watch The Video

This may come as a shocker, but porn is different from real sex.

Thanks to the Internet, porn is everywhere, and that sets many of us up for someunrealistic expectations in the horizontal hustle.

While real sex can be a passion-filled journey sending sky rockets in flight, some afternoons don’t end in delight, just some extremely awkward moments.

New York film production company Kornhaber Brown compares porn stars and regular Joes, side by side. Of course, they need a lot of bananas, sliced papaya and other food as stand-ins for those body parts that make porn stars famous.

The video quotes some startling — and disturbing — facts. One that jumps out: “In real life 75 percent of men ejaculate within 3 minutes.”

Perhaps that’s why, “71 percent of all women can’t orgasm through penetration.”

Indeed, porn sometimes seems to make real sex seem like really lame sex.

Huffpost contacted Kornhaber Brown for the sources of that info. A spokeswoman was less than forthcoming.

“While the stats are based on credible sources, such as Jon Millward’s Deep Insidestudy, we’d rather stay out of a discussion about scientific, sexual health or social impact issues.” Gillian Weeks, Head of Sales and Development said in an email.

“We just made this for fun.”

Then again, how much fun can you have in three minutes?

The Treasure Club
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Asheville, NC 28805
More About The Treasure Club Gentlemen’s Club In Asheville, NC

Welcome to Asheville’s Treasure Club

Welcome to the Treasure Club – Asheville’s only true Gentlemans Club
and upscale sports lounge. We feature over 30 beautiful entertainers,
six big screen TV’s, pool tables, video gaming, and show all Pay Per
View sporting events.

We also have a climate controlled smoking deck built specifically so
you don’t miss a minute of the action. Come visit us and see the most
beautiful girls in western North Carolina.

520 Swannanoa River Road, Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
Email: asheville@thetreasureclub.com

Hours

Monday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Tuesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Wednesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Thursday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Friday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Saturday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Sunday: Closed

Drink Specials

Monday: Domestics $2.75
Tuesday: Cape Cods $4.75, Budweiser $2.75
Wednesday: Royal Flush $5.00, Miller Lite $2.75
Thursday: Fuzzy Navels $4.75, Draft $2.00
Friday: Rum/Coke $5.00, Banana Bombers $4.00
Saturday: Vodka Tonics $5.25
All specials subject to availability.

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dance options depending on your mood. Our entertainers give table
dances,private VIP dances and champagne rooms are available.

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Having Sex Affects Your Satisfaction, Study Finds

Your motivation for having sex really affects how satisfied you feel.

At least, that’s what a new study out of the University of Toronto found. In a paper published this month in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, a research team led by social psychologist Amy Muise investigated two motivations for having sex:

1. “Approach” goals like increasing intimacy and experiencing pleasure.
2. “Avoidance” goals like not disappointing a partner.

They found that these motivations determined how much satisfaction an individual derived from his or her sexual experience.

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In one experiment, researchers recruited 517 participants who had previously been in a sexual relationship and presented them with one of eight possible scenarios involving a couple. In some scenarios, one partner engaged in sex to “feel closer to their partner,” in others to “avoid disappointing their partner.” Participants were than asked to rate the partner’s relationship satisfaction, sexual satisfaction and level of sexual desire on a scale of 1-7. The researchers found that participants believed those who had sex to “feel closer to their partner” would have higher levels of relationshipand sexual satisfaction.

In a second experiment, researchers recruited 108 heterosexual couples from an unnamed Canadian university. Each participant completed a background survey and a 14-day “daily experience” study. According to the paper:

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On days when people engaged in sex for approach goals… they experienced greater relationship and sexual satisfaction, but on days when people engaged in sex for avoidance goals, they experienced lower relationship and sexual satisfaction.

The researchers conducted two further experiments, both of which confirmed the original findings.

So, what can we take away from this study? Having sex to please someone else is not a good idea — it detracts from your own satisfaction, and can affect how you feel about your relationship over time.

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Previous research has looked at why people have sex, but Muise’s study is one of the first to investigate how motivation translates into satisfaction. A study from 2007 identified 237 different reasons why people have sex, ranging from attraction and excitement to revenge and attention.

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Researchers have also looked at whether men and women have sex for difference reasons. Under the direction of Dr. Cindy Meston, the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory at the University of Texas at Austin identified a number of reasons why people pursue sex. They found little difference in motivation between genders. In April 2013, Meston told author Kayt Sukel: “The top three reasons for having sex were the same in both genders — they were having it for love, for commitment, and for physical gratification.”

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Here’s to having sex because you want to — not because you want to please someone else.

Best Regards,

Ashley Sweete

Spokes-Model

The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
More About The Treasure Club Gentlemen’s Club In Asheville, NC

Welcome to Asheville’s Treasure Club

Welcome to the Treasure Club – Asheville’s only true Gentlemans Club
and upscale sports lounge. We feature over 30 beautiful entertainers,
six big screen TV’s, pool tables, video gaming, and show all Pay Per
View sporting events.

We also have a climate controlled smoking deck built specifically so
you don’t miss a minute of the action. Come visit us and see the most
beautiful girls in western North Carolina.

520 Swannanoa River Road, Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
Email: asheville@thetreasureclub.com

Hours

Monday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Tuesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Wednesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Thursday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Friday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Saturday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Sunday: Closed

Drink Specials

Monday: Domestics $2.75
Tuesday: Cape Cods $4.75, Budweiser $2.75
Wednesday: Royal Flush $5.00, Miller Lite $2.75
Thursday: Fuzzy Navels $4.75, Draft $2.00
Friday: Rum/Coke $5.00, Banana Bombers $4.00
Saturday: Vodka Tonics $5.25
All specials subject to availability.

Dances

The Treasure Club offers nightly drink specials. We offer a variety of
dance options depending on your mood. Our entertainers give table
dances,private VIP dances and champagne rooms are available.

VIP / Private Parties

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Church, State, And Strip Clubs

I was reading an article today about Church Goers trying to shut down a Strip Club and the article asks who will win. Well if we simply look at just the numbers here for a second ( I am a believer that numbers never lie) the average Strip Club has a capacity of 1000 people and is open 7 days and nights a week. The average Church of any type can hold a couple hundred at best and opens one day a week (some for two days) for a few hours.
In a Nation where Democracy Rules the Church shouldn’t have a prayer.
I do not see Strippers with signs in front of the Church. Do You?

Masturbation For Dummies

Fly solo

Find a time when you’re home alone and won’t be interrupted. Turn off the television and hide your phone; do whatever you normally do to help you relax. Maybe a leisurely bath or shower might help to get you more in the mood, or you could light a few candles and put on some soothing music. When you’re ready, lie down and make yourself comfortable; take a moment to center yourself and focus on your own breathing.

Butterfly touch

Using the lightest pressure, touch your face with your fingertips. Stroke your cheeks, draw your fingers across your forehead, rub your temples and massage your scalp. Make sure you take your time; pay attention to your breathing, to the feel of your skin and try to make your entire body go limp every time you exhale.

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Massage

Using a firmer touch, move your hands up and down your arms, across your shoulders and behind your neck. Do you notice any muscle tension? Work on these areas for a little longer. Make sure you keep things varied by rubbing, stroking and kneading your muscles.

Get playful

Now you’re feeling more relaxed, move your hands towards your breasts. Cup them, stroke them and play with them. Apply featherlight pressure to your nipples, tracing the outline, before gently pinching and pulling on them.

Work your way down…

Continue working downwards, massaging your abdomen, hips and thighs. Make sure you take things slowly and keep your breathing slow and even.

and back up again

When you’re ready, move back up your body to the pelvis. Place both hands over your vulva and apply the gentlest pressure, moving your hands in small, slow circles. Keep the pressure light until you feel ready to take things further.

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Take things further

Position your hand so that you can touch your clitoris and rub it gently between your thumb and finger. Then try stroking the entire length of your clitoris with slow up and down movements; change the speed and pressure to work out what feels good for you.

Use both hands

While one hand takes care of the above, use the other to explore deeper inside yourself. Try reaching one finger two inches inside your vagina and stroke along the front wall… It may take a few moments for this to have any effect, so experiment with speed and pressure until you feel something.

Let your body talk

While you’re exploring yourself, don’t feel bound to lying still. Try pressing your thighs tightly together, to amp up the pressure, or rocking your hips back and forth as you stroke. Tense your muscles, quicken the pace of your breathing and try to let go.

Going it alone

The rest is up to you! These steps aren’t a cookbook recipe for arousal; experiment with different pressures and motions, abandon yourself to your sensations, follow your instincts and go with what feels good. Have fun!

Best Regards,
 

Ashley Sweete

Spokes-Model
 
The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
 
 
 

Top 10: Female Sex Fantasies

No.10 Domination (her dominating you)

Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset — but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. The entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?

No.9 Domination (you dominating her)

The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned — if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.

No.8 Teacher/student

You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasize about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: Not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.

No.7 Sex with a stranger

Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her libido definitely gets fired up at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side — the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day.

No.6 Threesome with another woman

These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.

No.5 Threesome with two men

This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman — which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.

No.4 Voyeurism

If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys “watching” just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.

No.3 Force fantasies

As mentioned in our common female fantasies article, force fantasies are massively popular among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it.

No.2 Exhibitionism

She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.

No.1 Private dancer

Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control — a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.

The Treasure Club

520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400

The Thinking Woman’s Guide To Threesomes

There was a time when sex with more than one partner at a time was considered a nasty cespool of sticky, patchouli-scented nonsense. Or something girls did with their coke dealers when they were low on cash. Regardless, group sex was not typically thought of as something that intelligent, educated, well-adjusted women of the world willingly did because, ya know, they just wanted to. Obviously, this kind of blatant, judgmental retro-sexualism is tired and sad now. I’m of the belief that we should pack up all antiquated sexual hang-ups, put them in a box with any leftover Adam Sandler DVDs we haven’t destroyed yet, leave them in 2012 for the Mayans, and head into the next Age with heads held high and vaginas unfettered by shame.

If you’re like me, one of your first steps outside the traditional sex realm — either in practice or fantasy — is threesomes! Yay! Threesomes are so magical based on the fact that they’re simultaneously in a completely different league than one-on-one sex (all those extra body parts are a real game-changer), and they’re reasonably attainable for entirely mortal, non-porn stars like you and me. Well, maybe you’re a porn star. But I’m not. And I’ve had threesomes, each of which turned out shockingly well — they were exciting, enlightening, drunk, blurry, electrifying… everything you could want from your first (and maybe only) foray into group sex. And I somehow kept my emotions, self-respect, and friendships fully intact. I know. I’m a goddamn hero among women. Allow me to drop some wisdom on you.

Be the guest star. Part of the reason I’ve found my threesome experiences to be so fulfilling, both vaginally and spiritually, is that I didn’t have that much at stake emotionally. Yes, the others involved were my pals. Yes, if things had become weird between us afterward and we were no longer friends, I would’ve been really disappointed. But I would’ve been “drifting apart from non-lifelong friends” disappointed, not “breaking up with boyfriend” disappointed. I can only imagine, since I’ve been smart / lucky enough to only be the special guest, but I assume it’s way better to be the sexy stranger, with fresh genitals and no emotional baggage, who comes in, passes out orgasms, and promptly floats out in a cool breeze that smells like freedom and inconsequence. The other two get to sit and wallow for a while in the tense, unspoken “what does this mean”-ness of the post-coital moment. Even if they’re truly that kind of liberated couple for whom seeing each other’s wet places grinding on a hot a piece of strange doesn’t tangle up their heart strings, they still have to deal with going back to the monotony of being a twosome. Not you, baby. You’re out of there and onto the next adventure, like not having to compromise on where to eat lunch. Bottom line: when there’s no one around to accuse you of “liking it a little too much,” you are free to like it as much as you want.

Don’t plan it, even if you know it’s coming (heh, “coming”). Even if the pre-threesome, ‘”this is totally gonna happen” tension has been building between you and your favorite friends for many a drunken outing now, I swear to god I will personally come punch you in the tit if you dare say it out loud. Because it will be utterly, irrevocably ruined. Premeditation is what takes a group sex experience from “wild, loving, bohemian expression of youthful willingness to indulge in an utterly beautiful, free moment of a hot, midsummer’s spiritual connection between (probably drunk) friends” to “sadness-scented craigslist ad.”

Don’t have feelings. Except for those that lead to erections and platonic bonding. Get #realtalk with me for a minute: if you have the kind of vajay that likes to slip a promise (cock) ring around every piece it lays under, or if you’re already pining in the heart for one of the slices of bread you’re about to become jelly between, just say no. You know this already, but allow me to be the friend who states the obvious: this will end badly. Scenario A) You bone them, the object of your secret affection doesn’t realize they’re in love with you at the sight of your nipples, and you’re sad. Or scenario B) You bone them, he/she does realize your genitals hold the key to their true romantic happiness, they leave their current girlfriend in a heap of tears and condom wrappers, the two of you are happy for about five minutes until the guilt slowly prods one of you closer and closer to “listen, I can’t do this anymore” and then you are still sad. And probably down two friends.

Do joke about it afterward. If you’re friends with your copulatory cohorts, and you’re all savvy and self-aware enough to have survived The Deed with your relationships intact, then absolutely feel free to talk and joke about it afterward and henceforth forever. Maybe it’s something you let others in your circle know about, or maybe you keep it your fun secret. Either way, allowing embarrassment, guilt, or awkwardness to creep in on the issue as time goes on is a dynamite way to retroactively ruin the experience. You can’t control other people’s level of weirdness, but if you stay lighthearted about it, the whole experience can be made even sweeter and sexier — a threesome can either become that “thing that happened that you don’t ever mention that silently strains your friendships until you just stop calling each other,” or a fun, fond memory the three of you share.

The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400