ThreeSome Improved Our Sex Life

Due to a number of family problems, our sex life was at an all time low. I noticed that this was having an effect on my husband so thought of ways to perk up our sex life. The thought of a 3some came to me, but with who? Then a chance phone call, a male friend who I’d know for many years (much longer than I’ve known my husband) called to say that he was working near to us and would it be okay if we were to put him up for a couple of nights. I jumped at the chance, of course you can, I replied, my fantasy was coming together. I’ll add here that this male friend and me did once have a thing going so he’d seen me naked before.

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Anyway, on the first night of his stay, all three of us were drinking wine and talking about old times. When the time came for bed, I got the spare bed ready then dropped down on it, that’s it I said, I’m ready for sleep. My husband tried to get me off the bed without success, so he pulled at my slacks, thinking that I could never show off my pussy to anyone, little did he know !! With my slacks off, my skimpy knickers (pre-arranged) didn’t hide much, then I lay back with a sexy smile on my face as my husband undid my blouse. I lay there with just my bra and knickers on, then my husband took off my bra letting my breasts flop out, then off came my knickers. Leaving me naked in from of both my husband and my friend.

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At first I was a little shy but soon (like under a minute) relaxed and opened out my legs to show all I had to them. My husband took the hint and lay beside me as he nibbled my nipple while running a finger along my shaven pussy slit. I was soon very wet as my friend joined us and did the same. My hand went between their legs to fondle their growing cocks. Oh, I think you two are a little over dressed, aren’t you? Without a word they both stood up and stripped, I looked at they pulled down their pants to show off their erect cocks. Laying beside me again, I fondled their cocks, then my husband rolled onto me and pushed his cock all the way up into my soppy pussy before thrusting in and out. As he came, so did I but I wasn’t satisfied. my husband pulled out and I nodded to my friend, who looked over to my husband, who, to my surprise, nodded back. My friend (who I know had had the op), pushed his erection up into my waiting pussy and pumped like mad into me. I came twice before he did, while my friend was doing this, I was sucking off my husband, then the tables were turned and I sucked my friend as my husband shafted me again. This went on for over an hour before we were all too tired.

Finally we all had a good kiss and cuddle before my husband and I went to our bedroom and my friend got into the spare bed. Speaking with my husband in bed, I asked him what his thoughts were. I found it quite a turn on, he replied, so you don’t mine it happening? No, he replied, loved it. Would you like it to happen again? I asked, no problem, why are you interested in a repeat, he asked. I smiled and said, I can’t wait… Looks like another confession soon…

 

Ashley Sweete

Spokes-Model

 

 
The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
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More About The Treasure Club Gentlemen’s Club In Asheville, NCWelcome to Asheville’s Treasure Club

 

Welcome to the Treasure Club – Asheville’s only true Gentlemans Club
and upscale sports lounge. We feature over 30 beautiful entertainers,
six big screen TV’s, pool tables, video gaming, and show all Pay Per
View sporting events.

We also have a climate controlled smoking deck built specifically so
you don’t miss a minute of the action. Come visit us and see the most
beautiful girls in western North Carolina.

520 Swannanoa River Road, Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
Email: asheville@thetreasureclub.com

Hours

Monday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Tuesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Wednesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Thursday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Friday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Saturday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Sunday: Closed

Drink Specials

Monday: Domestics $2.75
Tuesday: Cape Cods $4.75, Budweiser $2.75
Wednesday: Royal Flush $5.00, Miller Lite $2.75
Thursday: Fuzzy Navels $4.75, Draft $2.00
Friday: Rum/Coke $5.00, Banana Bombers $4.00
Saturday: Vodka Tonics $5.25
All specials subject to availability.

Dances

The Treasure Club offers nightly drink specials. We offer a variety of
dance options depending on your mood. Our entertainers give table
dances,private VIP dances and champagne rooms are available.

VIP / Private Parties

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Having Sex With Olivia Wilde Is How I Lost Weight

Jason Sudeikis says making love to Olivia Wilde helped him to lose weight.

The 37-year-old actor credits his gorgeous fiancée, who previously revealed they ”have sex like Kenyan marathon runners”, for helping him to slim down by enjoying daily workouts with him under the sheets..

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The ‘Saturday Night Live’ star told the August issue of ELLE magazine: ”The truth is, I’m not getting up an hour earlier and walking on a treadmill. I have the greatest workout partner in the world. And you don’t need a gym membership for that kind of workout.”

Jason, who began dating the 29-year-old actress in November 2011, has also made a number of changes to his diet.

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He explained: ”A lot of it comes from tiny things, like not eating barbecue sauce with my pizza at two in the morning. I think it’s all a manifestation of being happy and wanting to treat myself well.”

Despite being comfortable to share details of his love life, Jason admits losing his virginity was scarier than his first appearance on the comedy sketch series.

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He said: ”Sex was probably scarier. I wasn’t as concerned that my parents were going to walk in in the middle of my first sketch. There are security guards there. That’s a big part of it.”

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Jason and Olivia, who announced their engagement in January, reportedly plan to tie the knot in New York next spring.

The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
More About The Treasure Club Gentlemen’s Club In Asheville, NC

Welcome to Asheville’s Treasure Club

Welcome to the Treasure Club – Asheville’s only true Gentlemans Club
and upscale sports lounge. We feature over 30 beautiful entertainers,
six big screen TV’s, pool tables, video gaming, and show all Pay Per
View sporting events.

We also have a climate controlled smoking deck built specifically so
you don’t miss a minute of the action. Come visit us and see the most
beautiful girls in western North Carolina.

520 Swannanoa River Road, Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
Email: asheville@thetreasureclub.com

Hours

Monday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Tuesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Wednesday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Thursday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Friday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Saturday: 6:30 PM – UNTIL
Sunday: Closed

Drink Specials

Monday: Domestics $2.75
Tuesday: Cape Cods $4.75, Budweiser $2.75
Wednesday: Royal Flush $5.00, Miller Lite $2.75
Thursday: Fuzzy Navels $4.75, Draft $2.00
Friday: Rum/Coke $5.00, Banana Bombers $4.00
Saturday: Vodka Tonics $5.25
All specials subject to availability.

Dances

The Treasure Club offers nightly drink specials. We offer a variety of
dance options depending on your mood. Our entertainers give table
dances,private VIP dances and champagne rooms are available.

VIP / Private Parties

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Masturbation For Dummies

Fly solo

Find a time when you’re home alone and won’t be interrupted. Turn off the television and hide your phone; do whatever you normally do to help you relax. Maybe a leisurely bath or shower might help to get you more in the mood, or you could light a few candles and put on some soothing music. When you’re ready, lie down and make yourself comfortable; take a moment to center yourself and focus on your own breathing.

Butterfly touch

Using the lightest pressure, touch your face with your fingertips. Stroke your cheeks, draw your fingers across your forehead, rub your temples and massage your scalp. Make sure you take your time; pay attention to your breathing, to the feel of your skin and try to make your entire body go limp every time you exhale.

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Massage

Using a firmer touch, move your hands up and down your arms, across your shoulders and behind your neck. Do you notice any muscle tension? Work on these areas for a little longer. Make sure you keep things varied by rubbing, stroking and kneading your muscles.

Get playful

Now you’re feeling more relaxed, move your hands towards your breasts. Cup them, stroke them and play with them. Apply featherlight pressure to your nipples, tracing the outline, before gently pinching and pulling on them.

Work your way down…

Continue working downwards, massaging your abdomen, hips and thighs. Make sure you take things slowly and keep your breathing slow and even.

and back up again

When you’re ready, move back up your body to the pelvis. Place both hands over your vulva and apply the gentlest pressure, moving your hands in small, slow circles. Keep the pressure light until you feel ready to take things further.

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Take things further

Position your hand so that you can touch your clitoris and rub it gently between your thumb and finger. Then try stroking the entire length of your clitoris with slow up and down movements; change the speed and pressure to work out what feels good for you.

Use both hands

While one hand takes care of the above, use the other to explore deeper inside yourself. Try reaching one finger two inches inside your vagina and stroke along the front wall… It may take a few moments for this to have any effect, so experiment with speed and pressure until you feel something.

Let your body talk

While you’re exploring yourself, don’t feel bound to lying still. Try pressing your thighs tightly together, to amp up the pressure, or rocking your hips back and forth as you stroke. Tense your muscles, quicken the pace of your breathing and try to let go.

Going it alone

The rest is up to you! These steps aren’t a cookbook recipe for arousal; experiment with different pressures and motions, abandon yourself to your sensations, follow your instincts and go with what feels good. Have fun!

Best Regards,
 

Ashley Sweete

Spokes-Model

 
The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400
 
 
 

Who Has More Sex – Blondes, Brunettes, Redheads

Blondes may have more fun but redheads have more sex, according to new research in Germany.

The study by Hamburg Sex Researcher Professor Dr Werner Habermehl looked at the sex lives of hundreds of German women and compared them with their hair colour.

He said: “The sex lives of women with red hair were clearly more active than those with other hair colour, with more partners and having sex more often than the average. The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation.”

He added that women who dyed their hair red from another colour were signalling they were looking for a partner, and added: “Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better.”

Psychologist Christine Baumanns said however that it may not be the women who were to blame for the better sex lives of redheads.

She said: “Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead he will think he is dealing with a woman who won’t mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex.

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520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400

Top 10: Female Sex Fantasies

No.10 Domination (her dominating you)

Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset — but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. The entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?

No.9 Domination (you dominating her)

The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned — if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.

No.8 Teacher/student

You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasize about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: Not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.

No.7 Sex with a stranger

Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her libido definitely gets fired up at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side — the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day.

No.6 Threesome with another woman

These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.

No.5 Threesome with two men

This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman — which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.

No.4 Voyeurism

If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys “watching” just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.

No.3 Force fantasies

As mentioned in our common female fantasies article, force fantasies are massively popular among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it.

No.2 Exhibitionism

She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.

No.1 Private dancer

Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control — a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.

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520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400

The Thinking Woman’s Guide To Threesomes

There was a time when sex with more than one partner at a time was considered a nasty cespool of sticky, patchouli-scented nonsense. Or something girls did with their coke dealers when they were low on cash. Regardless, group sex was not typically thought of as something that intelligent, educated, well-adjusted women of the world willingly did because, ya know, they just wanted to. Obviously, this kind of blatant, judgmental retro-sexualism is tired and sad now. I’m of the belief that we should pack up all antiquated sexual hang-ups, put them in a box with any leftover Adam Sandler DVDs we haven’t destroyed yet, leave them in 2012 for the Mayans, and head into the next Age with heads held high and vaginas unfettered by shame.

If you’re like me, one of your first steps outside the traditional sex realm — either in practice or fantasy — is threesomes! Yay! Threesomes are so magical based on the fact that they’re simultaneously in a completely different league than one-on-one sex (all those extra body parts are a real game-changer), and they’re reasonably attainable for entirely mortal, non-porn stars like you and me. Well, maybe you’re a porn star. But I’m not. And I’ve had threesomes, each of which turned out shockingly well — they were exciting, enlightening, drunk, blurry, electrifying… everything you could want from your first (and maybe only) foray into group sex. And I somehow kept my emotions, self-respect, and friendships fully intact. I know. I’m a goddamn hero among women. Allow me to drop some wisdom on you.

Be the guest star. Part of the reason I’ve found my threesome experiences to be so fulfilling, both vaginally and spiritually, is that I didn’t have that much at stake emotionally. Yes, the others involved were my pals. Yes, if things had become weird between us afterward and we were no longer friends, I would’ve been really disappointed. But I would’ve been “drifting apart from non-lifelong friends” disappointed, not “breaking up with boyfriend” disappointed. I can only imagine, since I’ve been smart / lucky enough to only be the special guest, but I assume it’s way better to be the sexy stranger, with fresh genitals and no emotional baggage, who comes in, passes out orgasms, and promptly floats out in a cool breeze that smells like freedom and inconsequence. The other two get to sit and wallow for a while in the tense, unspoken “what does this mean”-ness of the post-coital moment. Even if they’re truly that kind of liberated couple for whom seeing each other’s wet places grinding on a hot a piece of strange doesn’t tangle up their heart strings, they still have to deal with going back to the monotony of being a twosome. Not you, baby. You’re out of there and onto the next adventure, like not having to compromise on where to eat lunch. Bottom line: when there’s no one around to accuse you of “liking it a little too much,” you are free to like it as much as you want.

Don’t plan it, even if you know it’s coming (heh, “coming”). Even if the pre-threesome, ‘”this is totally gonna happen” tension has been building between you and your favorite friends for many a drunken outing now, I swear to god I will personally come punch you in the tit if you dare say it out loud. Because it will be utterly, irrevocably ruined. Premeditation is what takes a group sex experience from “wild, loving, bohemian expression of youthful willingness to indulge in an utterly beautiful, free moment of a hot, midsummer’s spiritual connection between (probably drunk) friends” to “sadness-scented craigslist ad.”

Don’t have feelings. Except for those that lead to erections and platonic bonding. Get #realtalk with me for a minute: if you have the kind of vajay that likes to slip a promise (cock) ring around every piece it lays under, or if you’re already pining in the heart for one of the slices of bread you’re about to become jelly between, just say no. You know this already, but allow me to be the friend who states the obvious: this will end badly. Scenario A) You bone them, the object of your secret affection doesn’t realize they’re in love with you at the sight of your nipples, and you’re sad. Or scenario B) You bone them, he/she does realize your genitals hold the key to their true romantic happiness, they leave their current girlfriend in a heap of tears and condom wrappers, the two of you are happy for about five minutes until the guilt slowly prods one of you closer and closer to “listen, I can’t do this anymore” and then you are still sad. And probably down two friends.

Do joke about it afterward. If you’re friends with your copulatory cohorts, and you’re all savvy and self-aware enough to have survived The Deed with your relationships intact, then absolutely feel free to talk and joke about it afterward and henceforth forever. Maybe it’s something you let others in your circle know about, or maybe you keep it your fun secret. Either way, allowing embarrassment, guilt, or awkwardness to creep in on the issue as time goes on is a dynamite way to retroactively ruin the experience. You can’t control other people’s level of weirdness, but if you stay lighthearted about it, the whole experience can be made even sweeter and sexier — a threesome can either become that “thing that happened that you don’t ever mention that silently strains your friendships until you just stop calling each other,” or a fun, fond memory the three of you share.

The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400

 

What You Can Learn about Sex from Older Men

Just as some women eye younger women as competition, some men can’t help wonder if their girlfriends or wives dream of being with an experienced, older man – the Sean Connerys, George Clooneys, and Cary Grants of the world. Some men whose girlfriends or wives have dated older men in the past wonder what those older men had that they might not. Well, wonder no more. Here’s what you can learn about sex and love from older men and the women who have loved them.

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1. Get up out of bed. Talk to a woman who’s spent any significant time with an older man and she’ll likely tell you that her ex got out of bed for her. As in, he got out of bed at midnight, after they had sex, to get her a drink of water. Or he went downstairs to investigate a strange sound or to turn off the kitchen light or to adjust the A/C. Should this be the man’s job? Of course not. But many women adore their partner for letting them stay comfortable in their warm and cozy bed while they get up out of bed to do one of these things. And every now and then, a woman may use those extra few minutes to change into something sexy, light some candles or otherwise get ready for sex.

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2. Massage her back and/or feet. Once an older man begins to realize that his erection isn’t as reliable as it might have been in his younger days, he may realize that sex is about more than his penis. It’s about touching, waiting, seducing, wondering where the fingers or the mind will travel next. And because sex is often most pleasurable and orgasms are most easy to come by when a woman is relaxed, starting with a massage or a foot rub isn’t a bad way to begin.

3. Take your time.What’s the rush? Linger in bed. Kiss longer. Touch her all over. You have all the time in the world rather than a wham, bam, thank you ma’am. You know how Don Draper and Hank Moody linger, even when they shouldn’t? Learn from these older men.

4. Give and give some more. Older men are often pleasers. Sure, you might think it’s because they’re thrilled to be with a younger woman. However, even older men who date or are married to women their own age tend to be pleasers. After all, they’re experienced enough to know that there are many ways to give a woman an orgasm and that many women are often more satisfied with sex when they have had an orgasm, or when their partner has taken the time to find what makes sex feel good for them. Whether it’s oral sex, finger play, a vibrator or a favorite position, find out what she craves and then give it to her. Many women are pleasers, too, and she’ll likely want to respond in  kind to your generosity.

5. Appreciate her. If there’s one thing that age and experience give a man, it’s a sense of appreciation – especially if he has loved and lost. Having a “one who got away” reminds a man that he should have come home on time more often, he should have danced with her on the kitchen floor even when there was no music playing, or he should have said yes when she asked him to meet her for a mid-day lunch. Women, with age and experience, know this, too. Rather than wait to mess up, learn this lesson early. If you have a chance to express love or connection, take it.

6. Brush your teeth before bed. Young guys get caught rebelling against years of living under their mother’s roof. After all, no one wants to be told time and again to brush their teeth before bed. Or else they spend time cultivating that “just woke up” look (and smell). But seriously, guys. You’ll probably have a better chance of before-bed sex if you don’t smell repulsive. Older men know this and they brush.

7. Embrace the senses. Bodies smell. Sex smells. Sex also has its own tastes and sounds and there’s all this sweatiness that goes on in between bodies. And have I mentioned stray hairs? Don’t worry; you have all this, too. Older men have gotten over this fact and have embraced sex for all it’s worth and the way it fills each of one’s senses.

So there you have it! Seven secrets of good sex culled from age and experience – only you get them a few years early. Make good use of them.
Ashley Sweete

Spokes-Model

The Treasure Club
520 Swannanoa River Road
Asheville, NC 28805
Phone: 828-298-1400